So simple and yet so difficult...!!!

Women mostly want the simplest things in life but the irony is that the simplest things or people are the hardest to get.

The question that most men would think after reading the line above is – how to define simple? What is being simple? How simple does it get for a woman to be simple enough? What is the lowest limit?

Men often need definitions and parameters of abstracts like quality time spent together. When in love, time flies by. I wonder why most relationships go kaput after the initial charm starts to fade away and the reality dawns on the face.

Why can people not fall in love with the real person than just getting attracted to a personality or more often than not -- the skin. Why don’t we fall in love with the soul of the person? Well I think that’s because for most people, it’s love at first sight. I have not yet understood the concept of it. Is it love or infatuation at first sight? How is it possible for two people to love each other genuinely, for life without knowing and accepting each other for both good and bad? I just do not understand the concept and thus, this far, has no answers.

I do not fall in love as frequently as my other friends do and that’s because I do not believe in love at first sight. It just does not happen to me. I wonder why and how it happens to so many other people. I wonder what they are seeking in life. I wonder why are they so alone in life to look for someone temporarily to give them attention. Is it one of the ways to prepare for life? But why prepare? Why not live life as it comes? And most of all do people really remember all the lessons life teaches them? If they did, the world would have been a much better place.

Well, world is a very extremely beautiful habitat and why not spend time in making some genuine relationships and friendships in life than just having fun out of human emotions? Why not just see the world and explore it than having fun out of playing with human emotions.

I don’t know whether it’s better to be single or to be with someone. I am sure some genuine person’s support and being there helps lead a better and more fulfilling life. But to recognize the one is most critical. There’s nothing wrong, I believe, in kissing the ugly frogs till the time you get your prince charming but make sure u do not hurt the frogs and remember that it’s because of them that you got your prince. (I know it may sound funny but thats how it is for many people and how much I may try to argue, but this seems to be the right thing in midst of all the infidelity, attractions and hollow relationships. It is very important to move on in life!!)

And what women want is very simple and thus very difficult. Women want love, care, affection, respect, loyalty, kindness, humility, humour, attention, blah blah blah blah n the list seems to be never ending. I feel, at this moment atleast, that women mostly look for a guy who is sensitive enough to understand her and bear with her for life, to love her forever for what she is and for what he is when he is with her.

Please guys understand your women, the unsaid words, the unexpressed emotions.. Notice her and give her genuine compliments, take her out shopping once in a while if not everytime, pamper her with love, care, affection and attention and not always with money. Steal a kiss once in a while and take out atleast some time for her every single day... A warm hug compensates for a lot of negatives... Listen to her and dont just hear her words.. Try and remember what she says and introduce her to your friends. Be proud to have her on your side and be rationale with her. She wont mind if you point out her mistakes and tell her when she does something wrong but be patient and explain stuff with an human angle.. We dont mostly understand all logics, chemistry and physics of life.. Bt we do understand genuine emotions... Hold her when she gets carried away and dont always take all her words as face value, understand the meaning, the hints and the hidden clues...

Women... we move on and it hurts n it pains but once we decide something, we do it... we mostly learn lessons of life the hard way coz of such emotional fools that we tend to be sometimes, rather most of the times but trust me women are just so much stronger than a man could ever be (most of the times!)... We value money, save (I do) and then splurge and pamper ourselves and our family and our dearest friends... and sometimes the strangers too...

So much more I can write here... only if men would ever understand a woman... life would be... aaahhh heaven...!!

Love, Cherish and Value life while you live it to the fullest…!!! Love, Cherish and Value life while you live it to the fullest…!!! Amen…